The 'I Am a Fecking Ride' Mantra

"Shout it, believe it, feel it and know it until you are smiling brightly and ready for your date." Get ready to go dating with Ireland’s premier modern matchmaker, Avril Mulcahy!

I’ve been on a mission all my life to find out the secret of attraction. I have worked in the dating industry for the past 10 years, gone to numerous dating seminars and asked matchmakers and dating coaches, who all had different answers for me. I even travelled to India to talk to different gurus and wise men to help me solve the attraction conundrum.

So, do you want to know what it is? You must remember that this mantra, once used, will instantly transform you. Are you okay with that?

I want you to repeat after me, and every time you repeat it, I want your voice to get louder and louder. I want you to believe it. I want you to imagine getting more energised every time you say it. I want you to imagine the mantra seeping into your skin and filling up your entire body all the way to your toes and your fingertips, energising each part of you until you actually become what you are saying.

Are you ready? Repeat after me:

I

Now say:

AM

I Am a Ride

Now put both words together and shout it:

I AM

Now say the following,

A FECKING RIDE

Now put it all together:

I AM A FECKING RIDE!

Say it again and again:

I AM A FECKING RIDE! I AM A FECKING RIDE! I AM A FECKING RIDE!

And again, until you truly believe it.

I want you to look in the mirror. I want you to look your reflection in the eyes and tell yourself:

I AM A FECKING RIDE!

The next time you’re getting ready for a night out and you’re all done up and looking fabulous, look at the mirror and tell the person looking back at you that they are a fecking ride. I want you to shout it, believe it, feel it and know it until you are smiling brightly and ready for your date.

Change that voice in your head from a critic to a coach. After all, it’s your mind and you’re the one who’s in charge in there.

So, stop giving yourself such a hard time. Get out of your own way and be good to yourself. After all, you want your date to feel comfortable and good about himself, so why not do it for yourself too?

When you are more loving and positive with yourself, you will find that you are more relaxed, more self-confident and more at ease while dating. You will tend to meet more loving guys on the dating scene and will be ready to create a truly fulfilling relationship.

I can guarantee that if you use this, you will feel 100% better about yourself – more sexy, more confident and more fun, which in turn will make men more attracted to you.

Now, Go Get Him!

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